Do: interact with other bloggers
Don’t: just comment and tell them to check out your blog
One of the staple pieces of advice given to pretty much every newbie is to interact with other bloggers in your community. This is a great way to drive traffic to your blog, but it also makes the experience much more fun! Being a true part of the community makes everything much more enjoyable. However, make sure you’re leaving meaningful comments and not just throwing links in people’s comment sections. Bloggers already have plenty of blogs they read, so if it’s obvious that you haven’t read their post and you just want to get your own page views, then there’s really no incentive for them to interact with you. You couldn’t be bothered to read their post, so why should they read yours?
Do: use social media to promote your blog
Don’t: contact random people with links
This is a similar point to my last one, but it is somewhat different. Social media can be a great way to promote your blog while building another community for yourself. But you shouldn’t just tweet a link to your blog to some random person who you’ve never interacted with before. (The exception to this being if they asked for links to blogs.) It’s quite rude and presumptuous, frankly. If you build meaningful connections with people on social media, then chances are they’ll give your blog a look.
Do: post regularly
Don’t: post random, two sentence posts just for the sake of posting
Another common piece of advice given to new bloggers is that they should post frequently. Some people, however, take this a little too far, posting pretty meaningless things just to have something new go up on their blog. While it is true that posting frequently/regularly is important when trying to build your blog’s following, you also want to make sure that you’re posting high-quality content. Don’t just post two sentences saying, “I started a reread of Harry Potter today! So excited to revisit this series.” That’s great for a tweet, but not for a blog post. If you really want to update your blog followers on your reread, maybe write a few paragraphs about why you’re rereading it or what your favorite parts so far have been. You want to make sure people have something interesting to read. That’s far more important than making sure there’s something new every day.
What other things can you think of that bloggers building their following may want to keep in mind?
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Those of you who have followed me for awhile have probably heard me talk about my experience with social anxiety. For those of you who haven’t, to make a long story short, I’ve had pretty bad social anxiety since I was around 12 or 13 years old (and I’m now 22). So I have plenty of experience with anxiety: what it feels like, how it impacts my life, etc. As a result, I understandably get very happy when books have good anxiety representation. It feels great to see a part of yourself that can be really difficult to deal with reflected in a book you’re reading. But often, I’ll connect with an anxious character and then I see reviewers say some things about that character that really makes me upset. I doubt these people are saying these things to make anxious people feel bad, but regardless of intent, that’s exactly what it does.
So I thought I’d put together a post about some things that you should avoid saying about characters with anxiety. This isn’t really meant to be a complete list, but these are things that I have seen before in reviews that have really upset me and, therefore, are things that I thought to include. Please feel free to leave more suggestions/advice in the comments and if you’d like, I can update my post to include your comments (with credit to you, of course). I might also end up doing a part two sometime in the future if I end up thinking of other things to say or I notice more problems in reviews of books with anxiety representation.
Without further hesitation, here are some things you should avoid saying in a review when discussing a character’s anxiety.
If you had asked me a year ago or even a month ago if I liked character-driven books, you would’ve gotten a very quick and very strong “NO” in response. I’ve always been the type of reader that likes action-filled plots and suspense to keep me turning the pages. Character-driven novels? Isn’t that just a nicer way of saying boring?
As a fan of historical fiction, I end up reading a decent amount of reviews for books in the genre. Something that I’ve recently noticed is that there are reviewers who get annoyed with historical fiction for using modern language. This is something that honestly doesn’t bother me at all and that I actually like in historical fiction so today I want to talk a bit about why this may or may not be something to complain about. This should go without saying, but obviously, this is all personal preference/opinion!
Reviewing is pretty much the cornerstone of book blogs. It’s what draws a lot of bloggers to blogging in the first place and it’s probably the one thing that a majority of book bloggers actually have in common. Because there are so many different people who review, you’re bound to come across a lot of differing opinions about reviews, who they’re really intended for, what they should do/say, etc.
Some people view reviews as a way to help authors. I don’t think anyone views their reviews as 100% for authors and not at all for readers, but there are certainly reviewers who think of reviews as primarily something that helps authors. You review books and help more readers discover the books, leading to more sales and exposure for the author. The end goal here is not to help readers discover books, but to generate more sales, hype, etc. for the author. But really, this mindset can lead to some problems in reviewing and for this reason, I really think reviewers need to view their reviews as something that benefits readers, not authors.
Unfollowing blogs is something that I kind of struggle with. After I’ve been following someone for a while, I feel some sort of obligatory loyalty to them as if I’m somehow a bad person for no longer wanting to follow their blog. I worry that unfollowing them will make them upset or angry. Logically, I know I probably shouldn’t feel as bad as I do. Chances are people aren’t even going to notice that I’m no longer following them; they may notice their number of followers go down, but they probably won’t know it was me. And even if they do, why should I feel bad about unfollowing a blog that I’m no longer interested in? Today I wanted to talk a little bit about unfollowing blogs and why it’s okay to do it in case there are other people like me who end up feeling guilty.
Negative reviews can be a bit of a sensitive topic among bloggers. There are some who never write or share them, some who only post them to Goodreads, and some who post them on their blog frequently. Personally, I don’t write them often simply because I usually enjoy the books I read, but I still share them on my blog and Goodreads. Today I wanted to talk a little bit about when I think it’s okay or even good to write a negative review and when you should maybe skip it. Obviously, this is my personal opinion and people are free to write or not write negative reviews as they wish. So if you disagree with anything I say, don’t get too upset about it. 😉